A letter to one of Westerners

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You know, China is a traditional country, it is changing worse and worse, I mean, traditional spirits, now but there are most people who still are planted the root of traditional seed in their mind. Of course, I heard of there were some girls also wanted money from Westerners, but I think they will feel shamed one day as time passed. Ok, everything but first I will simply say, that loyalty (faithfulness) is predicated by the individual. Suddenly, we're back to the Golden Rule, and asking the potential mate how they would feel if their intended cheated on them. There are some who would say, that they are OK with an 'open' relationship where both parties have affairs with others outside the marriage. However, these same 'OK' guys would really be angry when their lady became pregnant with someone else's baby. I am very doubtful that he would be 'open' to financially supporting a child that wasn't his. You can only imaging how he would treat the child during it's growing years. I know I am right in what I did with the guy who wanted to 'borrow' money. The word 'borrow' is supposed to mean, requesting a financial boost, and paying it back later.... versus a 'gift' which is not expected back. Besides, he had his nerve coming to a site where the women are wishing to meet a man who is financially secure... and THAT JERK hit him up for some. So maybe he had to do the same first to me, in case. Hahaha:-) Frankly, I don't know if Westerners are more honest... I would go for outspoken... or some guys will tell someone what they want to hear. Again, it's an individual behavior，in fact... and not necessarily a group (Westerner) behavior, I know that. I would have no problem with loyalty, or financial trouble to hit a man up for some, since I do practice the Golden Rule ;) Esther